When it comes to making one of life’s most significant decisions—having children—many wonder if there is a “right time,” especially when living far from home. This question gains additional layers of complexity when considering the unique challenges of living abroad, such as cultural adaptation, language barriers, and professional stability.

In the latest episode of our podcast, “Maternidade fora do Brasil,” we talk with Amanda Santos, a Brazilian who made Vienna, Austria, her home. Amanda’s story offers a valuable perspective on finding the ideal time to start her family abroad. For her, this waiting period was about more than just adapting to a new country and overcoming language barriers. It was also an opportunity to solidify her professional career, ensuring a stable foundation for her family’s future.

Amanda highlights the importance of feeling “at home” and secure in her new life in Austria before embarking on the journey of motherhood. This conscious decision allowed her and her partner to create a welcoming and stable environment for their children, where the new culture and language became integral parts of their family identity.

Important Considerations for Expatriate Families:

• Cultural Adaptation: Understanding and feeling part of the local culture is crucial for creating a positive family environment abroad.

• Language Barrier: Overcoming linguistic challenges facilitates daily communication and prepares parents to better support their children’s education and social development.

• Professional and Financial Stability: Having an established career and financial security can alleviate many common concerns of new parents, allowing them to focus more fully on their family’s well-being.

While Amanda’s story emphasizes waiting for the right time as essential to her experience, it is important to recognize that there is no one-size-fits-all answer. Each family, depending on their circumstances, values, and dreams, will find their own “right time” to expand, regardless of where in the world they may be.

Amanda reminds us that when considering expanding the family abroad, the most important thing is to ensure that you and your partner feel prepared and supported in your decision. Whether waiting for the perfect moment like Amanda or navigating the complexities of parenthood in a new country under different circumstances, the key is to do what is best for your family, with love, patience, and careful planning.